Parenting a Neurodivergent Child: Beyond the Diagnosis

Back-to-school season is everywhere. New uniforms. New pencil cases. First-day photographs. Excited children counting down the days. But for some neurodivergent children — and their parents — September doesn't necessarily feel exciting. It can feel like a very big demand looming on the horizon. So rather than asking, “How do I get my child school-ready?”, perhaps there's another question we can ask: “How can I make the transition back to school feel a little safer?” Why can r

As a parent of autistic/PDA children, I have heard my fair share of opinions from others about my children's behaviours and presentation over the past few years. Alongside raising three neurodivergent children, I have spent the last eleven years working alongside children and families. I've heard these misconceptions from every angle—around dinner tables, in schools, in professional meetings and even directed at my own family. The Children Behind The Behaviour My eldest daugh

"Why does my child always have to argue?" "Why do they correct me all the time?" Why can't they just accept help?" These are questions I hear frequently from parents of children with PDA, and questions I have often asked myself. Have you ever been trying to help your child and have them shout and scream at you, "I don't want your help!" - knowing full well they do? Many of the behaviours that can feel challenging, controlling or even disrespectful are often understood through